htownmike
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Registered: 01-13-2008 Location: Houston
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posted on 03-12-2008 at 11:40 |
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how close have you guys been to losing it?
 I haven't came close to using my virginity. I'm kinda ashamed to say at my age.
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phoenixbird
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Registered: 03-04-2008 Location: SW Missouri
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posted on 03-26-2008 at 22:04 |
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Not close at all! Don't feel bad Mike. I haven't even kissed anyone. I freeze up and shut off.
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nudeartist
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posted on 04-22-2008 at 17:57 |
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I've come really close. Many Many Many Many years ago I was dating a guy who was also a virgin.(the only guy I ever dated) He and I were able to have some foreplay but when I mentioned condoms he freaked out and didn't want to have sex. After that he didn't want to be intimate anymore. A month later we split. that was the closest I Ever got to sex.
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anothervirgin
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posted on 04-22-2008 at 23:33 |
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Not sure if I want to do it with a condom, ever. Either I'll do it only after marriage (that's the plan; most certainly if she'll be an *experienced* woman), or she'll have to take some sort of pills ... Losing my virginity with a condom doesn't sounds good to me at all. LOL, maybe it doesn't even qualifies as losing ones virginity entirely if using only condoms (at least from a male's perspective?) ... never thought of that seriously until now.
Never was in a situation to lose my virginity either, and I'm almost 26. I'm not ashamed about that at all. All I am is depressed because I don't think I'm going to find the right girl, because I don't like the thought of being married with an *experienced* woman.
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nudeartist
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posted on 04-25-2008 at 17:25 |
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'Not sure if I want to do it with a condom, ever.'
The thought of this is a bit dangerous. I was close friends with a girl who didn't want to use a condom on her first sex experience and she ended up with an STD. In todays world one has to take precautions.
Secondly, having sex with a condom is still sex only with a then piece of latex in the middle.
Thirdly there are plenty of cases where a wife or husband gives an STD to their spouse.
whenever I lose my virginity, (if it ever happens) I plan to do it safely and you should to.
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anothervirgin
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posted on 04-26-2008 at 03:31 |
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Well, I'm not planning to lose my virginity with the first girl that is willing to do that with me  My plan is to do it with only one girl, *the one* ... and hopefully she'll be a virgin just like me. And before we'll do it, we'll make sure that we're both ok, and she's on pills or something (if she doesn't want to get pregnant) ... Plus, I think I have what's called frenulum breve, and I'm quite scared at the thought that something might rip there while trying you know what . So no worries that I'll spontaneously jump on the first girl ... it'll most certainly be something well planned in advance
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ant3k
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posted on 07-17-2008 at 18:22 |
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Both times too drunk, as a result of a lack of confidence in nightclubs anyway so I don't account for talking to someone or someone talking to me, so just drink a lot!
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ohdangletsbang
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Registered: 08-15-2008 Location: California
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posted on 08-15-2008 at 05:17 |
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Um. Not very. Hahaha. I dunno. The weird thing is that the most sexual experience I had was in first grade
Haha so yeah...I think I'll be a virgin for a while. I've never even kissed a guy.
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Blank_Wall
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Registered: 02-09-2007 Location: Houston, TX
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posted on 08-23-2008 at 17:56 |
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social interaction with guys
'Um. Not very. Hahaha. I dunno. The weird thing is that the most sexual experience I had was in first grade
Haha so yeah...I think I'll be a virgin for a while. I've never even kissed a guy.'
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Do guys ever initiate anything with you (in the way of social contact)?
If so, how do you normally react to it?
How many of your friends are guys?
How many of your friends try to set you up?
Where do you usually go with your friends?
... and what kinds of things do you do together?
Do you have any shyness issues?
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asiansensation
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posted on 09-01-2008 at 15:54 |
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first time poster woo! i've came very close 2 losing my virginity a few times. the latest was a couple of weeks ago. meet this very nice girl at a local bar and we fooled around a bit and ended up back at her house. when it came down 2 that time i stopped and told her i was a virgin. she understood and we just fell asleep. so thats my story
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iiBeccax
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Registered: 11-20-2010 Location: UK
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posted on 11-20-2010 at 21:46 |
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:/ very close
Very close, was suposed to lose it at the weekend, but i chickened out
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friend4354
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Registered: 10-14-2008 Location:
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posted on 11-29-2010 at 18:49 |
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I wouldn't use the terminology "chicken out". There is a lot that goes unsaid and unreported in the context of certain cultures. The UK and the US, for example do not value virginity very highly. In fact, it is someting to be embarrassed about, the condition of a coward.
However, I wonder who exactly is cowardly? Someone who is capable of confessing that having sex makes them vulnerable, and they they require a strong committment before handing over their bodies? Women especially have strong emotional reactions to sex. This is reproductive behaviour, whether a baby results from it or not. A woman who is pregnant or has a small child is very vulnerable. It shouldn't be strange for her to demand a very strong committment, even marriage, before engaging in this reproductive behaviour.
I hope my comments help.
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